Can’t Help Falling In Love

Falling in love is like giving someone a loaded gun pointed at your heart and trusting them not to pull the trigger. Loving them is like creating your own world. World of happiness together with your special someone. You and him/her together, holding each other hands, walking in the street, go on a date, chatting and texting late at night until you realize that it’s already early in the morning and of course exchanging of sweet messages that tells how much you love that person. But how would you do that if you’re afraid of falling? Fear of falling to the wrong one. How can you say that he/she is the one for you?

Being in love is one of the unexpected feeling you would ever experience. Getting to know each other. Knowing each others likes and dislikes, his/her favorites. Sharing each others past, helping and comforting each other when you’re down. Being there for him/her always until you don’t realize that you’re already falling. The problem is you can’t help it. You can’t do anything because the more you’re avoiding the feeling the more you’re falling.

The best part of being in love is its makes you happy. He/she makes you smile without reason. You’re always thinking about him/her 24/7. He/she also your inspiration to study hard and been your motivation for your everyday life. Without him/her feels like nothing and incomplete. It’s nice to have someone who you can be with. Someone who stands for you no matter what and someone who will never leave you. It’s better to be in love and to love than to not love at all. Don’t be scared of falling, no man has ever been killed for telling a woman he loves her so have courage, be man enough.

Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. Who understand you even in the madness, someone who helps you, guides you, someone who is your support, your hope. Fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight. Fall in love with someone who misses you and wants to be with you. Do not fall in love only with physical appearance, or with the idea of being in love.

Sometimes love is like a battle, you should know how to play better because when you fail you will lose the game. At first you will feel special but when he/she got tired of, you will be nothing for him/her, it feels like you two are perfect strangers. To feel nothing is everything sometimes. So you won’t over thinking and gets paranoid. Nowadays it’s hard to distinguish the truth between lies anymore. They keep on wasting that trust of yours so don’t blame yourself for not trusting again that easy. If they really love you they will make an effort to wait and gain your trust again. They will do their best to make you feel especial without expecting anything in return. They will love you unconditionally and made you believe that there is someone who is strong enough to fight for you. Someone who can prove that the man/woman of your dreams still exist. I’m so tired of people needing a reason for doing everything in their lives. Do it because you want to because it’s fun and because it makes you happy.