Friend Zone

Did you ever been in love with someone who you can’t be with? Did you ever feel being incomplete because he/she see you as your friend only? Why the friend zone happen and how to avoid it?

Sometimes you find yourself developing feelings for a friend, but you’re not sure how to proceed. To proceed to the feeling you once felt. Why? Because of the fear that runs into you. Fear of losing that person even as your friends only. Worst of all, your love interest is none the wiser, or they’re content to continue thinking of you as a friend.

You know it’s useless but you can’t help falling in love with someone. Even if nothing changes, you still hope she/he knows your feelings. Some says that professing your love only make yourself at ease. It is such a selfish thing to do. But for me it’s not true. Is it wrong to profess for someone you cannot be with? A proper farewell is as sincere as love. Who knows if the memory of being loved could give you strength to go on with your life? You would never understand how it must feel, unless you experienced it. For me loving someone mean the whole world. Even the outcome feels like shit don’t say the feelings are wrong, you cannot judge your heart which has gone its own way.

Would you still love after being friend zone? The best thing to do when you are in that situation is confess everything to him/her. Tell him/her you love/like him/her even you know that nothing would change. It’s the best way to free your heart from pain and to free yourself for being in love with your friend. Accept what will it take and try to let go your feelings. It’s better to express your feeling because at least for once you’ve been strong enough to fight for it and you wouldn’t have any regret in the end.  Don be scared be scared and make a choice.

The best day of your life is the one which you decide to love without any fear. Always be positive in your life. Getting hurt is okay sometimes, it makes you stronger. Being hurt leaves you a great lesson in your life. Lesson that will thought you how to be brave and do better next time. Never



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