One-sided love, or unrequited love as they liked to call it in the days of Shakespeare, is one of the most painful things. The care about someone who doesn’t feel the same way back leaves you feeling hurt, crazy for having the feeling that you have, and totally out of your mind.
The thing is how would you know if the love is only a one sided or your someone is truly in love with you. Maybe observing him/her is one of the way because actions more than words reveal how we really feel about someone. Actions never lie.
Why do people say they are in love when they are fonder of rather than in love with another person? Why do they need to lie and fool someone, not only other people but their self of course. They’ve got the courage to face a person saying “I love you” and simple reply that they love them back but the truth is they just don’t want to lose the person who is in love with them. They are kind of person who are selfish and care only about themselves. They maybe even feel a strong desire for that person who loves them, but mostly it is about not wanting to lose the person’s attention, companionship and all the things that the person is bringing to their life through love.
Sometimes it hurts a lot when you falls deeply in love with someone who can’t love you back. Someone who can never love you back. You’re making so much effort but it’s not been appreciated.
How can you love again when you’ve been in love so many times and at the same time get hurt and been fooled in the end. He/she made you think that you’re special, that you’re worth to keep for life. That there’s no one can ever break the two of you. He/she is full of promises that gets broken in the end. He made you believe that maybe someday there will be You and him/her forever. What now, where are all those promises! That’s the reason why falling is frightening. You will be afraid of being fooled again. It’s like trying to get yourself hurt over and over again. Especially when that someone don’t love you back. Or you’re not sure if he/she has a feeling towards you. Like what the message of Christina Perri’s song entitled “ A Thousand Years” her song say’s “how to be brave, how can I love when I’m afraid to fall” it emphasize her fear to love and falling again. Fooling you once can fool you twice or maybe trice. They can do that again until they’ll get bored and stop themselves for toying someone’s heart. The best thing you could do is to think first before you decide. Make sure to love a person who can love you unconditionally. Don’t make a wrong choice and don’t do things you would regret in the end. Never stop doing your best because someone doesn’t value you.